Your spontaneity is your identity. Maintain its charm, which will ensure that you stay far away from the title of “affected.” Femininity is not as many understand it. It is not about distancing yourself from your personality, it is not about affectation.
This type of pretense means that the female is not her natural self, that she pretends to speak in a way that seems delicate and deliberately makes some movements to show her fake innocence on the basis that it is pampering, and what is worse than fake pampering is if your personality is somewhat dry and you feel that this personality reduces your femininity, then you should definitely soften your nature and add feminine touches to it, but there is absolutely no need to exaggerate and pretense in showing tenderness and softness, and know that pretending femininity has the opposite effect and causes people to be repelled instead of admiring them.
We see many women deliberately pronouncing some Arabic letters in the wrong way to make their way of speaking seem more feminine in their opinion, and in fact they distort the language and even distort their femininity, as femininity does not need to fabricate verbal errors and give the impression of a low level of culture of the speaker, as the correct Arabic language is not limited to men and is our mother tongue that we must all be proud of, men and women. Femininity is not about distancing ourselves from our reality, it is not about pretending and acting delicately Exaggeration… is much simpler than that, it is a gift from God that He placed in every female and all she has to do is preserve the essence of this femininity and be very careful not to lose it in the hustle and bustle of daily concerns and life problems that prevent a woman from taking care of herself as she should, do not allow life to rob you of your femininity, but do not pretend to be an artificial femininity that does not express your reality.
Be natural and confident, be spontaneous and natural without forgetting the rules of etiquette and etiquette, take care of your appearance and stay away from rudeness and roughness and avoid harsh and sullen facial features, maintain tenderness, gentleness, softness and kindness in your personality. This is how you will simply be a real female without pretense.
